Never resent a person doing better then you

Let me be blunt you will never and I mean never become wealthy so long as you resent people who are wealthy. This has been written about extensively by Robert Kiyosaki in his Rich Dad Poor Dad series. Yet I think it is worth repeating here because I believe it is the single biggest reason the poor and the broke stay poor and broke.

Follow this simple logic, in the 50s and 60s many blue collar families had parents working say construction (you can fill it in with just about any trade) and all through the 70s etc young men grew up and if they were not college bound aspired to work construction. Hence middle Americans worked construction jobs for many decades. These jobs paid for houses, college tuitions, retirements and life in general.

In short being a “construction worker” had a certain status. It was considered a good paying blue collar career. Sure you had to work hard but Americans valued hard work and some kids never wanted college they wanted to build things, run back hoes and tear old buildings down. Who can blame them while hard work playing with heavy equipment is kind of fun.

Now a whole book on why construction wages fell over the 80s, 90s and 2000’s could be written. Floods of illegal cheap labor, a weakening job market, etc. Today we also seem to believe that every child should go to college and get a degree. We have forgotten that we need a middle class, a blue collar work pool, we have stopped valuing hard physical work as an admirable quality.

So how many kids today have a positive view of being a back hoe operator, or framing houses or building roads? The answer is not many, today that is something most people “settle for” not what they aspire to. Hence not many young men grow up in the US and become construction workers any longer. The logic is quite simple when people have a negative view of a profession, a place in life, a title, etc. they tend not to become what they dislike.

Pretty obvious, not ground breaking, what does this all have to do with wealth and money?

Simple if you see rich people and grumble, if you think the guy that is already in the 35% tax bracket should pay more and if you think all corporate executives are “rich jerks” you are going to have a real hard time moving up in income. Even if you do you will become what I call the “highly paid broke“. That means you will blow all your money and simply match spending to your income to satisfy material needs.

I see people all the time that resent the wealthy and the rich. I watch them grumble when Bill Gates gives 4 Billion to charity, they say with irritation “well he has it to give”. Then you put together an office pool to buy kids toys at Christmas or help a needy family and these same people make excuses and often give nothing. Don’t get me wrong there are poor people that give all they can, very generous folks, most however, don’t resent the wealthy.

Simply put if you want to be wealthy you must first have a very positive view of wealthy people. You can’t begrudge a guy his lifestyle then expect to achieve it yourself. I believe as I stated before this is the NUMBER ONE reason people stay poor and or broke. So the next time the urge to scoff at a successful person crosses your path, ask yourself, “do I want to become wealthy?”.

If the answer is yes think twice before you reinforce to yourself once again that being wealthy is a negative thing only achieved by insiders, the greedy and the lazy. You are going to have a real diffcult time doing what it takes to become wealthy if that is your view of those who have already done it successfully.

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Why you should never buy whole life insurance

This is going to be a brief and short post, I am going to put this simply DO NOT EVER purchase whole life, universal life or any other name they ever come up with to try to sell it to you. This has been written on a lot so if you want to know more then I give you here, do a bit of research online and you will find a lot more information to back my suggestion.

Let me be blunt, Life Insurance is for when you die, nothing more and combining it with anything is a mistake. Your life insurance should be about 10 times your annual income if you are supporting a family. The reason for that is simple, 10% returns are quite doable with solid investments so your survivors can invest the proceeds, draw 10% a year and not deplete the money for a very long time. This effectively replaces your income for longer then your working life.

Now to carry that much whole life insurance would be extremely expensive, beyond the budget of most working Americans. An insurance agent will try to show you how whole life builds “cash value” but this is nothing but an illusion.

Remember life insurance pays out when you die! When you live a long time (most of us do) it is good for the Insurance company, you pay and they do not. So when you buy term insurance you pay the amount that very smart economists and math PhD’s have determined will be profitable for the insurance company based on average life expectancy. In other words a fair market price that covers you if you die during the term.

Now look at whole life, you pay a LOT MORE for the same amount of insurance (the risk incurred by the insurer) but the insurance company has the same level of risk. Now if you are a good stooge and pay way to much for way to long, they will then give you some of your money back some day. In the interim they invest your money at market rates of 10-15% returns. So they make that interest, they hold your money and they tell you how great it is that they will give some back.

If you like that how about this. Go get 100,000 dollars, send it to me and I will hold it for you, I will even pay out 2% interest on it. Twenty years from now you can have your 100K back, plus 2% interest per year or you can just let me keep holding it until you die. When you die, I will give the money to who ever you tell me do. Sound like a good deal to you? Of course not! Oh and yea if you ever need the money I will loan your own money to you and you can just pay it back with a bit of interest. Sound like a scam? It’s not you just pay in your 100K in installments and they call it whole life!

So here is what you do, buy the insurance you need on 20 year level term and invest the rest of the money in good solid investments. You make the 7, 10, 12 or 15% depending on your risk tolerance and ability, you retain the ownership and control of your money. If you die in the interim your loved ones are covered, if you live till the end of the term and have invested well then you should not need as much insurance. Perhaps you might buy a bit less for say 10 years and by then if you still need insurance you have done something very wrong.

Don’t let the insurance guy tell you how hard it is for a 70 year old to get insurance! At 70 you don’t need life insurance if you have done a good job of saving and investing. You are not leaving behind a young wife and 3 kids, you just need to be buried. If you can’t save enough money to get yourself put in an box and under six feet of dirt in 70 odd years something is drastically wrong.

I won’t be writing on this subject very often as it is pretty well known and accepted by most good financial professionals today. I just wanted to get it out right away because it is a huge mistake often made by young people who end up in front of a well trained but undereducated insurance agent.

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